Check yourself, fool!

My cousin came down from FS to help us move. We usually host, but since we were moving, my sister stepped up & provided him a place to stay.

Yesterday morning, the day after moving day, my sister & cousin came over to the new house and scooped me up for breakfast.  From there, we did a little retail therapy. It was fun! After that, though, I had to spend the day cleaning the old house & moving the last few things out. My sister GOT MAD AT ME. She did that thing where it’s obvious she is upset, so you ask, “What’s wrong?”  and she responds huffily & puffily”NOTHING.”  Eventually I coax it out of her. And she’s mad because I can’t hang out.  I guess she feels that hosting is equivalent to baby sitting and that she has better things to do?  I do not know, but that’s the impression I got: that my cousin was a burden and that it is my duty to take some of the weight off.  Which is shitty!  Our cousin rocks!  He’s so sweet and easy and totally not a burden.  He’s great company.

Anyway.  So, I says to her, “I hope you understand that I have things I MUST do today & I can’t really hang out.” She snaps back, “Don’t talk to me like I can’t fathom your situation, blah blah blah.  I am allowed to have these feelings blah blah blah.”

What?

Thankfully, my lovely cousin understood. The only person with these “feelings” was my sister. She is still not speaking to me. I don’t get it. But, all I can say is “Fuck that!”

Girl needs to check herself!

By the way, this all occured on my birthday.